Getting a New Dog: Choosing the Right Dog for You

Getting a dog is one of the most exciting decisions you will ever make – and one of the biggest! Like all important decisions, doing your homework before taking on a new pup will make sure that you’re choosing the right dog for you and your lifestyle.
Brown Labrador and owner
Brown Labrador and owner
Brown Labrador and owner

Do you choose a puppy or an adult? A pedigree, crossbreed or mixed breed? A dog or a bitch? Your dog will be a part of your life for a long time to come, so it’s important to research ahead to know what to expect.

Use our dog type tool for more information on what to expect from different breeds, so you can choose the perfect pup for you and your family.

Pedigree, crossbreed or mixed breed?

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Did you know that there are more than 200 breeds of dog recognised in the UK alone? If you add in all those adorable crossbreeds and mixed breeds, there are hundreds more types to choose from. As a first time dog owner, perhaps the first thing you should consider is if you’d like a pedigree, crossbreed or mixed breed dog.

The advantage of choosing a pedigree dog (also known as a pure breed) is that you have a certain amount of predictability. You can be fairly certain that your four-legged friend will be a certain size, with a certain coat length and texture, character, energy level, and you’ll also have a bit of warning about some potential health conditions that can affect certain breeds.

There’s a certain amount of predictability with crossbreeds too. Crossbreeds have parents from two different pure breeds, but it can be trickier to be sure which breed, if either, will determine your dog’s looks and personality. For example, a Border Collie-Labrador cross could be laid back, brimming with energy, or neither!

The fun really starts with mixed breeds (otherwise known as mongrels). They come from a largely non-pedigree background, and although you can sometimes see glimpses of recognisable breeds in them, it often comes down to guesswork. One of the many good things about mixed breeds is that they can often be healthier, as they usually have a larger gene pool meaning that hereditary problems are less of an issue.

For more information on what breed of dog may suit you best, try our breed selector tool.

They don’t call them ‘puppy-dog eyes’ for nothing - there’s something about puppies that makes them absolutely irresistible!

Puppy or adult?

They don’t call them ‘puppy-dog eyes’ for nothing - there’s something about puppies that makes them absolutely irresistible! They might be cute as a button, but that doesn’t automatically mean a puppy is the right choice for you and your home.

If you’re thinking of getting a puppy, you’ll find that they’re naturally curious and keen to learn, so having time to train them is an absolute must. With your love, care and training you can turn their enthusiastic blank canvas into a masterpiece! Training is great fun but hard work – you’ll need to teach them everything from toilet training to walking on the lead. If you have the time and the patience, you’ll find their transformation hugely rewarding and all the effort you put in will help build a great bond between you and your puppy.

Another option is to rehome a 'teenage' or adult dog. If you’re a first time dog owner you may find an older dog to be a better fit for your lifestyle.

Most adult dogs will come to you with some training and socialisation. That doesn’t mean the job’s done however - there’ll still be plenty for you to do, and there’s no reason why you can’t build a bond that’s as strong as with any puppy. The old saying “you can’t teach an old dog new tricks” isn’t true, as every dog can continue to learn and adapt throughout their life.

Sadly, some adult dogs up for rehoming haven’t always been blessed with a previous loving home, so they may come to you with a bit of ‘emotional baggage’. These dogs need extra love, time and patience, but what you give to them will be hugely rewarding for both you and your dog, and result in a lifelong friendship. Working together on training will really help build your special bond, and grow trust between the two of you. Staff and volunteers at reputable rehoming centres will be able to give you advice on choosing the right dog to find your perfect partner.

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Dog or bitch?

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Another thing you need to think about when getting a dog is whether you want a male or female. Opinion varies enormously, and ultimately the decision really comes down to personal preference.

Some owners say that bitches are easier to train and tend to be more loving, while others argue that females are more independent and aloof. Males are often said to be more assertive, but neutering can make them a little easier to handle if they start out a bit too bold and over-confident (although this varies with the age of neutering and from one dog to another).

There’s no simple answer, and you’ll need to remember that a lot of your dog’s character and behaviour will simply come down to individual personality and the amount of time that you dedicate to training and socialising with them.

Unneutered dogs of both sexes can sometimes be a handful. Males can wander off in search of females, and unspayed bitches can be difficult to manage during their season and they can sometimes suffer from phantom pregnancies. If you’re looking to breed, these are manageable hurdles to overcome. Unplanned pregnancies, on the other hand, can cause unnecessary problems for you and your dog, such as complications during her birth and finding homes for the puppies. The cost of neutering a female tends to be more than for neutering a male, and more still if she’s already pregnant.

For more information on how neutering effects both males and females, take a look at our neutering FAQs page.

Breeder or re-homing organisations?

If your heart’s set on a pedigree or cross-bred puppy, then your best bet is to find a reputable breeder. Contact The Kennel Club or a breed-club secretary who may have a list of litters available, or should be able to put you in contact with breeders in your area. Try to choose a breeder who is part of the Kennel Club’s assured breeder scheme.

It can be incredibly fulfilling to adopt a dog from an animal shelter and offer them a second chance in life. There are many dogs waiting for a loving forever home. Each dog has its own story and many have lost their first home through no fault of their own, and would love to become a part of yours.

Reputable centres will be very careful about matching the right people with the right dogs – they certainly don’t want them being rejected again nor do they want you to take on a dog that’s not suitable for you. Staff carefully assess the dogs they take in, and will spend time getting to know you, your family and your lifestyle before they match you with any of their dogs. They’ll also be happy to give you advice and answer any questions you might have.

Not surprisingly, there are more adults dogs looking for new homes than puppies, and when there are pups looking for adoption, they often get snapped up pretty quickly. If you’re determined to rescue a puppy, you may have to take your time contacting several shelters and rescue centres or have to travel further afield to find one that’s right for you. Some of the larger organisations to contact includeDogs Trust, The Blue Cross, Battersea Dogs Home,RSPCA, Scottish SPCA or Dublin SPCA.

Whether you buy from a breeder or rehome a rescue dog, you can look forward to a fulfilling future of adventures with your new friend!

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If you’d like more information on choosing the right dog for you or have any other queries, contact our PETCARE EXPERT TEAM